Here’s the real deal: I dated a woman that had a son, he was already 13 years old when I met her. She married and became pregnant quite young: 17. Anyway, to make a long story short, no matter what, I was basically irrelevant to him. He never spoke to me or rarely looked me in the eye. Never smiled or initiated conversation. It just got to be a real drag, because when you are with a single mother it is a package deal -you have take all of it, not just her. We drifted apart not because of her son, but for other reasons.

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Where did I say that men who married single mothers were wimpy or beta? If you could copy and paste that for me I would be most grateful. I did review my post and can’t find that anywhere. I did say that I could not do it, and I am 100% beta. I wish I did possess the character of the various millionaires you’ve mentioned above. I think men who raise other men’s sperm are extraordinary and selfless individuals. I have nothing but praise for them. I only wish I weren’t so greedy.

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Re: LTR/dopamine. I actually was thinking about a monogamous LTR with the STR dopamine chasers, rather than an open relationship. I agree with you 100% and think that Fisher is absolutely right about Exp-Exp couplings. I believe Explorers are particularly apt to make associations and then to have reflexive approach/withdrawal emotions that are triggered by these associations, so it can be imperative that the LTR partner be associated with fun, playmate-type activities, and that the more tedious, everyday routine stuff of life be separated from the romantic relationship with some kind of firewall (in contrast to “helpmate”-seeking Builders, who might love sharing those everyday domestic chores).