Butterfly Flower
June 4, 2011 at 4:43 am
If there is no sexual relationship, you’ll probably see classic awkward beta pedestalization moves: his confident personality will evaporate, he’ll subtly cling to your attention and approval, he may invite you to a formalized “date.” Sad isn’t it. If you get even a whiff of this, and you are interested in dating him, call like in poker and lay the cards out or you’ll be subjected to a betariffic meltdown that will dry out your tingle like that don’t-eat packet in the beef jerky bags.

I think this is one of the first times I’ve ever actually agreed with you.

You see, I sort-of recently started making out with a Beta-ish guy in my social circle [He's really cute so it's fun to kiss him...] Apparently when I kissed him I led him on and now he’s head over heels in love with me.

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There are strategic reasons for a coupled man to cheat with a lower-SMV woman. By hypergamy it’s easier to keep her happy (and thus quiet), and it gives him plausible deniability as people won’t suspect he’s banging the homely housekeeper who is two or more points below his hot wife. But enough about Arnold.

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….Isn’t that the same as a girl looking at a nice guy and thinking “Evil creepy rapist!”?

Blues
June 3, 2011 at 9:28 pm
@Butterfly Flower

…but that’s just it. Are men incapable of differentiating between good girls and whores?

Actually it’s easier than most women think

Do men look at a good girl and think: “Evil conniving slut!”?

You’re thinking bitter men, not good men, both can overlap, but one doesn’t imply the other.

….Isn’t that the same as a girl looking at a nice guy and thinking “Evil creepy rapist!”?

More like “total worthless chump” but yeah, basically

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June 3, 2011 at 11:58 am
*translates , I meant

Tim
June 3, 2011 at 12:07 pm
I’m starting to get it the older I become. A woman’s fate is to become pregnant and give birth. Her body and life is completely disrupted, so in this sense I get hypergamy. If I were put out to pasture for nine months and my life were to be completely disrupted, I too would want nothing but the best. I would look at the highly educated, and ‘grey out’ the lesser educated. Or I would look at the tallest men, and ‘grey out’ the shorter men. So far so good.

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